“Whenever I hear a girl complaining that a guy used her, I instantly lose respect for her. It’s evidence of a victim mentality, one of the most unattractive traits anyone can have. ‘He never really liked me,’ she’ll whine. ‘He never really wanted to be with me. All he really wanted me for was sex.’ That kind of shit drives me crazy. What she’s actually saying is that she entered into an unspoken contract where she would provide him with access to her vagina in exchange for some combination of affectionate attention and emotional security. He then failed to deliver on that unspoken contract, and now she’s pissed. All I hear is a prostitute complaining that she didn’t get paid, and you know what? Tough shit. If you’re going to be a prostitute, the first rule is always get the money up front.”

Dear Coke Talk: On how not to get used.

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